Watching SATC all over again for the umpteenth time. Right now I’m on the episode where Carrie is searching for ” a hidden iceberg” in her relationship with Aidan. How sad is it when things are going so well we (women) always jump to the conclusion that there has to be something wrong. Why can we just be happy and live through the moment?. Ok, no one likes getting hurt but isn’t that what life is all about?, Living through the uncertainty as best we can?. I am no better , the word pessimist was made to describe me. This doesn’t mean I think its okay, I wish I could live through the moment without second guessing, kind of working on that.